Facebook-Style 'Lookback' Turns Scary In Anti-Sexting Campaign

Topics: sexting, Parental Intelligence, parental monitoring, sexting prevention, anti-sexting

Teens and Adults Agree: Education Diminishes Sexting Dangers

Topics: digital parenting, sexting, Parental Intelligence, education, sexting dangers

You Caught Your Kid Sexting, Now What?

Topics: digital parenting, sexting, Parental Intelligence, teens sexting, I caught my kid sexting

Teens Who Sext Are More Likely to Engage in Other Sexual Behaviors

Topics: sexting, Parental Intelligence, text messaging, sexting study, teens who sext

Face It, Your Child is Sexting

Topics: sexting, texting, Parental Intelligence, what to do if my child is sexting, is my child sexting

How Teens' 'Sexting' Photos End Up On Pedophile Websites

Topics: sexting, Parental Intelligence, online predators, sexting dangers, pedophiles getting pictures from sexting

Sexting Warning: New App Defeats Snapchat's Purpose

Topics: Snapchat, sexting, Parental Intelligence, snapchat and sexting, SnapHack Pro

Digital Parenting: There Is No Delete Key On The Internet

Topics: digital parenting, sexting, online reputation, Parental Intelligence, social networking

What I'm Reading: Sex, Teens And Social Media

Topics: digital parenting, sexting, social media, Parental Intelligence, teenagers

How to Set Certain Mobile Boundaries with Your Teens

Topics: sexting, cyberbullying, Parental Intelligence, cell phone monitoring, cell phone rules

Think Sexting Can't Land Your Child in Jail? Think Again

Topics: sexting, Parental Intelligence, Internet Safety, sexting laws, jail for sexting

Teen Sexting Criminalized by States

Topics: sexting, Parental Intelligence, sexting laws, sexting legislation, state sexting laws

Personalized Pornography: The Explosive Growth of Sexting Among Teens

Topics: sexting, Parental Intelligence, text messaging, sexual text messaging, pornography

3 Ways Your Teenager's Smartphone Puts Them at Risk

Topics: sexting, Parental Intelligence, texting and driving, cell phones, smart phones

Cyber-bullying, Sexting Can Affect Males and Females Differently

Topics: sexting, cyberbullying, cyber bullying, Parental Intelligence, sexting affects males and females differently

This Is What 'The Today Show' Thinks Teen Sexting Looks Like

Topics: sexting, Parental Intelligence, the today show, sexting dangers, what is sexting

Digital Parenting: What Every Parent Needs to Know About Snapchat

Topics: Snapchat, digital parenting, sexting, Parental Intelligence, sexting through snapchat

uKnowKids Featured in Mashable!

Topics: Snapchat, digital parenting, sexting, uKnowKids, Parental Intelligence

The Connection Between Sexting and Suicide

Topics: sexting, cyberbullying, Parental Intelligence, suicide, sexting and suicide

FBI Calls Cyberbullying a 'Significant Issue' For Law Enforcement

Topics: sexting, cyberbullying, Parental Intelligence, FBI on cyberbullying, FBI cyberbullying

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Facebook-Style 'Lookback' Turns Scary In Anti-Sexting Campaign

Posted by Steven Woda

March 7, 2014 at 4:00 PM

Do you remember when Facebook celebrated their 10 year birthday and allowed everyone to check out their "look-back" videos?Well one ad agency has created a rather sinister video for Innocence in Danger, a non-profit dedicated to stopping child sex abuse and pornography. Click on the video below, check it out, and see for yourself how effective it is at sexting prevention

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Topics: sexting, Parental Intelligence, parental monitoring, sexting prevention, anti-sexting

Teens and Adults Agree: Education Diminishes Sexting Dangers

Posted by Steven Woda

January 27, 2014 at 2:38 PM

Check out this article by the University of Massachussettes Lowell about a recent study involving sexting and recommendations to avoid risky digital behavior. 

Research by Assoc. Prof Andrew Harris and Assoc. Prof. Judith Davidson provides concrete data and recommendations related to the use of technology in young adult romantic relationships. Dubbed “sexting” by media outlets, the term involves sharing suggestive photos or messages, mostly by phone. Their paper, “Building a Prevention Framework to Address Teen ‘Sexting’ Behaviors,” details results from their research and provides insights from teens, the group least often consulted about youth behavior and motivations.

“There have been other studies about ‘sexting’ and related behaviors, but they didn’t try to understand what the kids are feeling and how their values influence their actions,” says Harris, who is also the associate dean of Research and Graduate Programs for the College of Fine Arts, Humanities and Social Sciences. “Much of the conversation has been based on limited data and knee-jerk reactions. We found that it is difficult to define ‘sexting’ behaviors and motivations in social context.”

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Topics: digital parenting, sexting, Parental Intelligence, education, sexting dangers

You Caught Your Kid Sexting, Now What?

Posted by Steven Woda

January 25, 2014 at 1:27 PM

This article was originally posted on the Huffington Post by Rachel Busman, PsyD.

I am getting asked more and more in my practice about how to talk to teens about situations that involve racy interchanges on Facebook, sending inappropriate pictures via text, and other Internet situations that spiral out of control. As the social media landscape continues to grow and change, these questions are coming up more and more and parents are looking for answers.

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Topics: digital parenting, sexting, Parental Intelligence, teens sexting, I caught my kid sexting

Teens Who Sext Are More Likely to Engage in Other Sexual Behaviors

Posted by Steven Woda

January 6, 2014 at 12:29 PM

Think your 7th grader isn't sexting? Might be time to think again.

A new study was published online today by the American Academy of Pediatrics about the sexting habits of at-risk seventh graders.

Here are some of the most shocking statistics:

  • 22 percent of at-risk seventh graders participated in sexting.

  • 17 percent sending texts only.

  • 5 percent sending texts and photos.

  • Higher perceptions of approval for sexual behavior from parents, peers and the media, higher intentions to engage in sexual behavior, lower emotional awareness, and lower emotional self-efficacy.

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Topics: sexting, Parental Intelligence, text messaging, sexting study, teens who sext

Face It, Your Child is Sexting

Posted by Tim Woda

October 31, 2013 at 1:54 PM

Making poor decisions and underestimating their consequences are the hallmarks of being a teenager. Today, teenagers are faced with so many decisions to make every day, it can seem unbelievable that any of them make it into their twenties unscathed.

Getting into trouble while navigating the dating world is nothing new for teenagers, either. However, what is new are all the different ways to communicate: talking on the phone, text messaging, email, facebook, twitter, the list goes on. With all of these avenues of communication available, it was only a matter of time before teens found themselves in trouble because of it.

Sexting is a fairly new term that is used to describe a number of activities. Mainly, it refers to exchanging sexually suggestive or explicit text messages and email, but it also is used to describe exchanging photos or other sexual material, and also forwarding or otherwise sharing the information received with someone else.

What the studies are showing

Researchers at the University of Utah's Department of Psychology conducted an survey of 606 teenagers aged 14 to 18. Twenty percent of the teens admitted to sending a sexual image of themselves using a cell phone. Almost 40 percent said they had received one, and worse, more than 25 percent of those students admitted to sharing the sext with their friends.

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Topics: sexting, texting, Parental Intelligence, what to do if my child is sexting, is my child sexting

How Teens' 'Sexting' Photos End Up On Pedophile Websites

Posted by Steven Woda

October 17, 2013 at 5:17 PM

This article was originally published in The Daily Mail by Daniel Martin.

Tens of thousands of explicit self-portraits taken by teenagers are ending up on websites viewed by pedophiles.

The naked or sexual pictures are often taken by girls at the request of boys in their classes and sent by mobile phone, in a practice known as ‘sexting’.

But unbeknown to the girls, these photographs may end up being passed around the school and even shared on social networking sites such as Facebook – then stolen and published on websites used by paedophiles.

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Topics: sexting, Parental Intelligence, online predators, sexting dangers, pedophiles getting pictures from sexting

Sexting Warning: New App Defeats Snapchat's Purpose

Posted by Tim Woda

October 16, 2013 at 4:54 PM

A new app has been designed that permanently saves your pics and screws over serial sexters. SnapHack Pro, designed for iOS 7, is an app that saves images without the sender's knowledge, and is sure to annoy the makers of the wildly popular disappearing photo and video sharing tool.

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Topics: Snapchat, sexting, Parental Intelligence, snapchat and sexting, SnapHack Pro

Digital Parenting: There Is No Delete Key On The Internet

Posted by Tim Woda

October 12, 2013 at 3:22 PM

As your children grow into their tween and teen years, they begin expanding their social circles beyond your immediate neighborhood and their classrooms. They grow curious about the Internet, Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, Ask, Reddit and other social networking sites popular with teens and young adults. it’s inevitable – your daughter comes up to you and asks for your permission to set up a social networking profile. Whether she’s legally allowed by networking sites or not, you’re not sure you want her venturing into that world yet.

“I Met This Boy...”

After getting your permission and that of your partner, your daughter created a Facebook account with your supervision. As her mother, you have been conscientious about monitoring her time online, not allowing her to spend time in her room while she’s interacting with her friends. You and your partner had her hand over her Facebook password and you log into her account regularly to supervise what she has been doing. She accepted your friend requests, however reluctantly. Up until now, everything has been going smoothly and she has been following your rules, even though she’s rolled her eyes on occasion.

You and your partner learn that she has met a boy at school. You refuse her request to send a friend request to him – neither you nor your partner feel this is a good idea, since you don’t know him. Your daughter tries arguing with you and you remind her about your ground rules. You remind her that, if she tries to get you to change your mind, or if she tries defying you, you will temporarily revoke her Facebook privileges. You learn, as you browse her account, that she did send a Facebook request to this boy. He accepted it. In response, you take her Facebook

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Topics: digital parenting, sexting, online reputation, Parental Intelligence, social networking

What I'm Reading: Sex, Teens And Social Media

Posted by Steven Woda

October 4, 2013 at 3:13 PM

This article was originally published in the Huffington Post by Sasha Belenky.

1. 'Social Media Is Destroying Our Lives'

Nancy Jo Sales, who wrote the Vanity Fair article that became the major motion picture "The Bling Ring," is back in the magazine with a look at teenage relationships in the age of social media. Adults may be shocked -- shocked! -- to learn that teens today are obsessed with sex. And Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, Snapchat, Tinder and other online tools are seemingly robbing America's youth of meaningful, loving relationships.

“We don’t date; we just hook up,” one girl in L.A. tells Sales. "Oral is, like, the new kissing,” says another girl in New York. Boys pressure girls to send them nude photos. “They’re definitely more forward to us online than in person,” says one girl, Zoe. “Because they’re not saying it to our faces.”

A group of friends at the mall sums up the Catch-22: “Social media is destroying our lives,” one girl tells Sales. “So why don’t you go off it?” Sales asks. "Because then we would have no life,” another girl responds.

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Topics: digital parenting, sexting, social media, Parental Intelligence, teenagers

How to Set Certain Mobile Boundaries with Your Teens

Posted by Steven Woda

October 3, 2013 at 9:53 AM

The adoption of smartphone among teenagers has significantly increased over the past few years. According to the 2013 Pew Internet study, nearly 80% of American young adults now own a cellular device. One in every four is a heavy internet user who would rather go online on their mobile device than a traditional computer. For academic pursuits, having a portable internet device is indeed very beneficial, since it aids them in their doing homework and research.  But how can you ensure that they are not spending too much time with their gadgetries? What about their exposure to restricted online content? As parents, an effective solution to avoid your teens turning tech-obsessed is to set certain mobile boundaries.

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Topics: sexting, cyberbullying, Parental Intelligence, cell phone monitoring, cell phone rules

Think Sexting Can't Land Your Child in Jail? Think Again

Posted by Steven Woda

September 23, 2013 at 1:45 PM

This article was originally posted on The Huffington Post.

The trial of a Victoria-area teen who is facing child pornography charges for allegedly texting a nude picture of another girl without her consent will go ahead before a constitutional challenge, a judge has ruled.

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Topics: sexting, Parental Intelligence, Internet Safety, sexting laws, jail for sexting

Teen Sexting Criminalized by States

Posted by Tim Woda

August 31, 2013 at 11:17 AM

Here is some great information about current laws in US states in regard to sexting from the blog at Lawyers.com.

States continue to outlaw sexting by teens – to each other or to adults – even as it grows more popular among them.

 The Problem of Permanence

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Topics: sexting, Parental Intelligence, sexting laws, sexting legislation, state sexting laws

Personalized Pornography: The Explosive Growth of Sexting Among Teens

Posted by Tim Woda

August 29, 2013 at 10:24 AM

This article was originally written by Jonathon Von Maren and published on LifeSiteNews.

The embarrassing political troubles of the unfortunately but aptly named former Congressman Anthony Weiner has catapulted the term “sexting” into cultural consciousness once again, prompting a sudden discussion on what, exactly, “sexting” is—and whether we should be worried about it. Dr. Keith Ablow, FOX News’ psychiatry expert, weighed in with a column entitled “What Weiner’s sexting scandal tells us about young women today,” concluding that it tells us that too many women are not having Private Part Pinups texted to them against their will. Rather, Ablow writes, “I can tell you that the average young woman no longer balks at sexting, watching pornography, or being the aggressor sexually in a relationship.” Slate.com noted that while the rates of boys and girls sexting—specifically, sending nude pictures of themselves—are pretty much the same, boys are far more likely to send these pictures on to their peers, resulting in often savage bullying that has culminated in tragedies like the recent suicides of several young girls. While Monsieur Weiner’s recurring predicaments have prompted a lot of snickering from the media, the “sexting” problem in general has become decidedly unfunny.

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Topics: sexting, Parental Intelligence, text messaging, sexual text messaging, pornography

3 Ways Your Teenager's Smartphone Puts Them at Risk

Posted by Tim Woda

August 27, 2013 at 1:00 PM

A whopping 82 percent of teens aged 16 or 17 have a cell phone. While these devices are great for facilitating communication between parents and teenagers, they also pose many risks. Talk to your teens about these common smart phone dangers and make a plan to avoid them.

A Distraction While Driving

Texting and driving is so dangerous that it's illegal in most states. You're 23 times more likely to crash when you're texting. Teens who text and drive spend an alarming 10 percent of their driving time outside their lane. Dialing, talking on the phone, and reaching for the device increase your chances of getting into an accident as well. Twenty-three percent of automobile collisions in 2011 involved a cell phone. The same year, accidents where there was a distracted

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Topics: sexting, Parental Intelligence, texting and driving, cell phones, smart phones

Cyber-bullying, Sexting Can Affect Males and Females Differently

Posted by Steven Woda

August 23, 2013 at 2:45 PM

Read this piece from The Hays Daily News that brings up a great point that cyberbullying and sexting can affect males and females differently.

This is the seventh in a series about abuse and violence in adolescent dating and romantic relationships.

Q: What is the relationship between teen dating violence and abuse and technology?

 The following article is based on a 2009 digital abuse study co-sponsored by MTV and the Associated Press. A total of 1,247 respondents ages 14 to 24 participated in an online survey. Digital abuse includes dating abuse and cyber-bullying. The latter term is defined as the use of electronic communication for the purpose of harming another person. Cyber-bullying includes digital communications to manipulate, intimidate, falsely discredit or humiliate other persons. Cyber-stalking is the form of cyber-bullying that involves repeated patterns of cyber-bullying or cyber-harassment. Sexting is a more specific type of digital abuse in which one person sends explicit sexual pictures or messages from one cell or mobile phone to another. All these digital abuses can be found in online dating violence and abuse.

Of the people interviewed (ages 14 to 24), 50 percent reported experiencing digital abuse. Among the teens, girls were more likely to have been targeted than boys at the rate of 53 percent to 42 percent, respectively. The respondents in the survey stated the most common types of digital abuse they experienced were spreading lies (online and in text messages), violation of trust and digital disrespect, mean messages online and in texts.

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Topics: sexting, cyberbullying, cyber bullying, Parental Intelligence, sexting affects males and females differently

This Is What 'The Today Show' Thinks Teen Sexting Looks Like

Posted by Steven Woda

August 21, 2013 at 3:29 PM

The Today Show did a segment on sexting last week, and they couldn't have been more wrong. 

Read the full story below from our friends at Business Insider. 

Last Thursday, "The Today Show" featured a segment on the new and shocking discovery that teens use their phones to sext each other, even though they use their phones to do literally everything else. We first saw the segment on Slate.

"Today Show" host Matt Lauer tries to figure it all out: "So a teenage boy will be sitting in a classroom, there will be a teenage girl he's never even talked to, and he will pick up the phone and text her 'I wanna hook up or I wanna do this to you, are you willing?'" he asks in the segment.

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Topics: sexting, Parental Intelligence, the today show, sexting dangers, what is sexting

Digital Parenting: What Every Parent Needs to Know About Snapchat

Posted by Steven Woda

August 12, 2013 at 6:00 PM

Keeping up to date with the evolution of social media can be a challenge for any parent, but familiarizing yourself with the latest trends is a vital part of digital parenting. Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram are the most popular social media outlets, but there are many less known apps that are gaining a large teen following. One app that is taking over social media is Snapchat. Snapchat, which is used largely by teens and young adults, allows its users to send pictures to their friends that self-destruct after they are viewed. Unfortunately, the promise of a picture disappearing is not entirely true. The person receiving the photo can choose to take a screenshot of it. Even though the sender is notified the screenshot was taken, once the recipient has acquired the photograph how they choose to use the image is out of the original senders hands.

With the allure of a picture vanishing once it is viewed, Snapchat has become an app that is widely used for taking photos of a sexual natures. While parents are aware of sexting by text message, they may not realize their teens have found a new way to send inappropriate images of themselves. Snapchat's advertising as a self-destructing photo app has created a false sense of security in teens and young adults. The reality that the receiver of the image can take a screenshot of the photo and use it any way they want without the senders consent is a consequence a teen may not fully comprehend.

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Topics: Snapchat, digital parenting, sexting, Parental Intelligence, sexting through snapchat

uKnowKids Featured in Mashable!

Posted by Tim Woda

August 9, 2013 at 1:59 PM

uKnowKids was featured in Mashable in the article "Keep it Clean: 8 Tools to Block Porn and Sexting." uKnowKids can help parents prevent their children from sexting and the dangerous pitfalls that can come with it! Here is it, by Taylor Casti.

If Anthony Weiner has taught us anything, it's that sometimes naughty pics just aren't worth it.

Sexting and pornography can be a problem for parents with teens. For teenagers and preteens, sexting can have major consequences, the least of which being a bad reputation. Nude selfies are still considered child pornography and are against the law. Even if the photo never makes it into the wrong hands, one study shows that teens who engage in sexting are more likely to take bigger sexual risks (such as having sex) that could lead to sexually transmitted diseases or teen pregnancy.

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Topics: Snapchat, digital parenting, sexting, uKnowKids, Parental Intelligence

The Connection Between Sexting and Suicide

Posted by Steven Woda

August 8, 2013 at 3:50 PM

Here is a very interesting and shocking article in Psychology Today by Elizabeth Meyer, Ph.D about sexting and suicide.  Even though it is from 2009, most of the article still rings true, and unfortunately not much has been done to help victims of sexting cases that got out of hand and the bullying/cyberbullying that almost always follows.

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Topics: sexting, cyberbullying, Parental Intelligence, suicide, sexting and suicide

FBI Calls Cyberbullying a 'Significant Issue' For Law Enforcement

Posted by Steven Woda

July 10, 2013 at 10:47 AM

This article was originally published on Digital Journal by Marvin Dumon. it can be accessed here. 

Cyberbullying can be more pervasive than traditional forms of bullying. Bullying at school as well as pranks can be more easily detected by teachers, administrators and fellow students.

A recent bulletin on cyberbullying and sexting published by the Federal Bureau of Investigation (FBI) advises law enforcement agencies across the U.S. that “the growth of cell phones and Internet usage among teens has altered youth social and conduct norms.”

The FBI’s report adds that “cyberbullying is one of the most significant new issues law enforcement has to address. Anecdotal and research-based accounts from police across the nation depicted a lack of clear guidance, training, and support. This is unfortunate because bullying is an age-old problem with recent forms often relying on technological devices and mediums.”

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Topics: sexting, cyberbullying, Parental Intelligence, FBI on cyberbullying, FBI cyberbullying