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In Case You Missed It: Man Charged in Amanda Todd Bullycide Case

May 9, 2014 at 2:12 PM

policeOne of the more pernicious aspects of cyberbullying is that, due to the nature of the Internet, it can cross international lines. Amanda Todd was a 15-year-old living in British Columbia who committed suicide in 2012 after being extorted online by a stranger. Before Amanda committed suicide, she left behind a heart-wrenching YouTube video describing the horrors she suffered as a result of her cyberbully. 

For many months, it was unsure if the cyberbully behind her suicide would be charged, or even identified. At one point Anonymous, an anarchist hacker group, got involved and fingered a Vancouver man as the culprit. The man turned out to be innocent and ended up accusing another man living in New York.

Now, 35-year-old Aydin Coban, who was living in Holland, has been arrested and charged with child pornography, extortion, criminal harassment and Internet luring.

According to USA Today, Todd is not the only alleged victim of the man. There are a number of young girls in Canada and other countries who may have been targeted by Coban. The man’s modus operandi apparently was to approach girls and seduce them into performing sex acts in front of a web cam. Then he would blackmail them into making more material for videos. 

Unfortunately, the concept of “sextortion” of teen girls seems to be a global phenomenon.  With the increase in sexting incidences among teens, it is likely that “sextortion” will continue to occur. However, the arrest and charges laid against Coban are steps in the right direction for seeking justice in cases of sexual exploitation. 

Make sure that your tween or teen is not being extorted for sexual photos or videos by:

  • Communicating with them about online dangers. Tweens and teens need to know that anything that they post or send online can be used against them by strangers and friends alike. Share news stories with them about people like Amanda who were sadly taken advantage of by someone they trusted online.

  • Encouraging them to approach you whenever they feel threatened or pressured online (and in-person). Tell them that you won’t be angry with them for however they may have arrived in a threatening or dangerous online situation. Typically, teens who experience these kinds of threats don’t initially go to their parents out of fear that they will be in trouble.

  • Utilizing parental intelligence tool uKnowKids to make sure that you are aware of their digital activities. The vast Internet is littered with of all types of savvy online predators. Parents must do their best to shield kids from these threats.

Bullying can have many tragic consequences. Find out more about topics like bullycide in our digital parenting resource center.

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Tim Woda

Written by Tim Woda

Tim Woda is an Internet safety expert, and a passionate advocate for empowering families and protecting children from today’s scariest digital dangers. Woda was on the founding team of buySAFE, an Internet trust and safety company, and he started working on child safety issues after his son was targeted by a child predator online. While his son was unharmed, the incident led Woda to kick-start uKnow.com. You can follow Tim on Twitter or on his blog.

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